Looking as sexy as Nollywood actress, Dakore Egbuson-Akande, after childbirth is the desire of most mothers. So, how do you get your sexy shape back after childbirth and keep your husband ‘thirsting’ for you? Do you want to look as sexy as Dakore, these tips has all the answers
(1) HIT THE GYM:
Tipping the weight scale by a couple of Kg after childbirth is something you cannot always help. It is Mother Nature’s way of modifying your body to bring to life a new being. What you can however help is deciding to stay that way after delivery. Many Nigerian women unfortunately resign themselves to looking flabby once they become mothers and unfortunately, husbands—as every typical male is prone to; are moved by what they see. It is up to you to prevent your husband from missing the slender shapely lady you used to be by hitting the gym and training under a qualified fitness instructor in order to shed that excess cholesterol mass and restore your shape.
2.Ditch tying hairnets and wrappers
This is a typical trend among some Nigerian ‘mothers’. Don’t make it a habit! We know we ladies sometimes want to be typical Africans, but there really are no rules for how to clad up yourself at night as a woman. Rather than always looking like a Nigerian village housewife when at home, why not try loose outfits that are somewhat chic?
You have the options of silky night robes with pink flowered design that would totally make your hubby hard in seconds. We also have delectable bum shorts that show off your curves and entice your hubby to no end. Use them every now and then. Walking around the house in a hair net and over-sized wrapper is a huge turn-off for your man. It’s even worse when you wear these things beyond noon and even step outside the house in them.
(3) Be neat:
Untidiness and low sense of hygiene repels men strongly. Some nursing mothers sometimes assume that it is permissible to leave things lying around, allow the laundry to pile for weeks, and leave the unwashed dishes overnight because of their preoccupations with child nursing. This is one of the main causes of husband-to-wife revulsion in marriage relationships after childbirth.
Neatness and smartness in a woman is super-sexy and keeps a man interested. Bathe regularly, wear nice deodorants and body sprays, apply make-up when you can, keep your hair neat and properly oiled and combed, wear clean clothes and don’t look scruffy. Being a mother isn’t license to look dejected and shabby.
(4) Be bold
Sexy and bold are blood relatives. You can never be sexy if you fear trying out new things. Get out of your comfort zone. To be sexy with your husband, you can:
- Give him a surprise dirty talk when talking to him via the phone. He will be surprised and even turned on by this sudden mood.
- Be adventurous and try out new food, or outdoor sport with him. This will help you be more open to new ideas.
-Be open about the things you want. If you are in the mood for something, tell your husband about it. Not only will he respect your true feelings, but also get turned on.
- Be bold and know when you should strike. While surprising your husband with sexy lingerie is a bold move, doing it when he is not in the mood or has a cold will not work. Make sure he is in the mood before making any surprise moves.
(5) Show off your body
Once your body begins to return to its old shape from working out, you need to begin to flaunt it for your man.
Here is how you can show off even when outside the bedroom:
- Have a sexy walking style. It should emphasise your cleavage or derriere.
- Engage in physical activities that allow you show off your stuff and body.
. You can take him with you on a hike. Just looking at your body will turn him on.
- Dancing is erotic. You can learn to strip tease or
Belly dance. These types of dancing give you
Irresistible confidence and a sexy poise.